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Mystery Method - Grounding

Sun, 14 Oct 2007 10:35:37 -0400

Grounding (via mysterymethod - Newsvine Column)

Mystery Method - Really - Be Talkative

Tue, 09 Oct 2007 00:42:02 -0400

Really - Be Talkative (via mysterymethod - Newsvine Column)

Mystery method - Bait - Hook - Reel - Release

Fri, 05 Oct 2007 08:40:55 -0400

Bait - Hook - Reel - Release (via mysterymethod - Newsvine Column)

Mystery Method - "So how do you all know each other?"

Wed, 26 Sep 2007 01:51:14 -0400

“So how do you all know each other?” (via mysterymethod - Newsvine Column)

Mystery method - The Problem with the 'Who Lies More' Opener

Wed, 19 Sep 2007 09:35:10 -0400

The Problem with the ‘Who Lies More’ Opener
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Mystery method - The Problem with the 'Who Lies More' Opener

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The Problem with the ‘Who Lies More’ Opener
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Mystery method - Canned Material

Wed, 12 Sep 2007 03:11:36 -0400

Canned Material

The Mystery Method makes use of canned material. If a particular value-demonstrating routine has been internalized, and is ready for use in set, then that routine is said to be in the can. (via mysterymethod - Newsvine Column)

Mystery Method - The "Have you seen Michelle?" method

Mon, 10 Sep 2007 03:28:00 -0400

The “Have you seen Michelle?” method (via mysterymethod - Newsvine Column)

frame control

Fri, 07 Sep 2007 21:24:17 -0400

Frame Control

The frame is the underlying meaning. It’s the context, the implication — the unspoken assumption in everything you say.
If someone asks you, “Are the fish biting today?” then he is implying that you have been out fishing. He hasn’t said so, but the listener will assume it is true — it’s just part of the frame.
The frame supplies meaning to the content. For example, if someone says “Yeah that guy got off,” what is the meaning of that statement? Depending on the context, it could mean that the ‘guy’ just got off of work. It could also mean that he beat a rap at the courthouse and was set free. It could also mean he had an orgasm. These are pretty different meanings. Whichever meaning becomes the accepted one is determined by the frame. He who controls the frame controls the communication itself.

Mystery Method - Just tell her how you "view" her

Fri, 07 Sep 2007 09:42:32 -0400

Just tell her how you “view” her, and she will become that person for you, but only if she agrees and it is flattering for her. You are building a character for her, and she will play the role because she likes the way that the role makes her feel. (via mysterymethod - Newsvine Column)

Mystery method - Proximity

Thu, 06 Sep 2007 00:29:15 -0400

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make a girl jealous

Wed, 05 Sep 2007 23:04:35 -0400

On the phone say, “Hold on I have another call.” Do this three or four times during the conversation and act annoyed. It’ll make you seem popular. Girls have done this to me and it works.

2. You can also throw in the tact that you have a girlfriend (which you may, or not.) “A girlfriend of mine …” or how about, “I don’t think my girlfriend would like it that you’re flirting with me.” Don’t worry about blowing yourself out because when the girl says, “I thought you have a girlfriend,” you say, “you want me to be single don’t your So you can have me. You like me!!! Haa, I thought that would make you jealous.”

make a girl jealous

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Wed, 05 Sep 2007 02:06:10 -0400

By betraying the woman’s importance to him, the man lowers his value in her eyes. She will find him less attractive and will behave accordingly. If he gets a lot of girls, he won’t care it tilings work out with her. But he cares — therefore he must not get many girls. Therefore he must be a low-value guy.

Mystery method - Attractive women are found in groups

Tue, 04 Sep 2007 04:01:15 -0400

Attractive women are found in groups (via mysterymethod - Newsvine Column)

Mystery Method - Rating Women

Tue, 04 Sep 2007 03:55:25 -0400

Rating Women (via mysterymethod - Newsvine Column)

gaming a girl

Sat, 01 Sep 2007 21:25:40 -0400

vibe create the touches? It is all part of a snowballing and sell-propelling system that feeds upon itself and sparks like a tire. Then it grows and becomes clear that it is on between them.
This energy is what’s important, not the physical touches. The physical touches are not merely yards to be gained on a football field in order to get closer to the goal. Rather, they are one necessary piece to incorporate with various other tools to create a certain chemistry between you and the target. There should be anticipation and tension in the air.

Windows of Escalation
As you game a girl — as you demonstrate value and lack of neediness, stimulate emotions, take control of the frame, make a connection, and so on —periodically a window of opportunity will open for you to escalate. If you miss the hint, and that window closes, you have just demonstrated lower value — and her patience will wear thin. Enough missed opportunities and she’ll decide that you’re either too chicken to make a move, or you’re incompetent in carrying it out, or you are lacking in social intelligence and thus incapable of leading the dance. Any of those are DLVs.

when to use negs in your pick up game

Fri, 31 Aug 2007 21:22:15 -0400

The better looking the girl, the more aggressive you must be with using negs. A 10 can get three negs up front, while an 8 gets only one or two over a longer time. You can go overboard if she thinks you are better than her (which happens more often that you’d think.) You can drop the self-esteem right out from under her, just like most 10s do to guys, and this isn’t good. You have to get as close to the breaking point as you can without crossing the line. Once you have gotten her right there, you can start appreciating things about her (not her looks.) There is a mutual respect now -something most guys never get from the girl.

This is how you remove a protection shield. Three negs ought to do it within two of three minutes of neutral chat. Once it is removed, you can, from a place of mutual respect, seduce her.
Sample Negs

• YOU: “I don’t think we should get to know each other.” HER: “Why not?”

YOU: “I think you are just too much of a nice girl for me.”
• If your target says something even slightly rude you say, “You don’t get out much do you?”

• If a girl isn’t into anything active, use that as an opportunity to neg her by saying, “Get with the program. I’m into living life. Don’t you care about staying fit? just cause you are thin doesn’t mean you are toned you know. You have to consciously plan activities. That’s it… I’m your success coach … and we are going roller-blading (or rock climbing) this week.”

• If your target interrupts you, say, “Hello, I’m talking, geez” or, “Excuse me… may I finish my sentence first?” You then say to others in the group, “Is she always like that?”

• If you are asking a question to two women and the target answers you say, “I didn’t ask you. silly.”