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This book is packed with information that none of the other books even touched on.  I'll try to give you a few examples of what I mean.  The book is over 260 pages and there are about 20 italicized pages that just cover university studies on dating.  The book covers every aspect from how to approach a  to how to look, act, and behave.  There are super techniques in the book that will get you a date every single time you use them.  I don't want to ruin it for the author but let me give you some idea of what's in the book.  He interviewed two thousand women and in the book are a number of the actual interviews.  One of the questions was "What is the best thing a man can say to you when he first approaches you that would make you feel good and want to respond to him?"  He gives you the top answer from the two thousand women he interviewed.  If you don't know what that answer is, you'd better buy the book.  Here's another example; the book covers how to have a conversation with a .  The author shows you how to establish connections and understand similarities.  "There is more familiarity and more informal warmth during a conversation between men and women."  While you're having a conversation, it is important to have a sense of humor.

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the mystery method hoop theory

the mystery method hoop theory..


One frame game that people play is they will offer hoops, to see if they can get YOU to jump into their hoop. For example, a girl might try to get YOU to do something such as hold her purse or buy her a drink. Or…


• She gives you a fake IOI to see if you

• She gives a fake IOD to see if will start chasing her. you get worried and react.
• She makes a comment to bait you

• She asks something to bait you into showing off to her. into explaining yourself to her or apologizing to her.


These are all examples of hoops that girls will use to assert their feminine power. If you are doing things for her, chasing after her, showing off to her, reacting to her, apologizing to her and explaining yourself to her, those are all IOIs that she can measure and exploit.
If you jump into her hoops, two things will happen. One, she will feel really good about herself — some part of her will be reassured on a primal level. And two, she will lose attraction. Just because she likes something doesn’t mean that it will get you any closer to having sex with her.


Be careful. On one hand, you don’t want to be the chump who gets tooled. On the other hand, you also don’t want to be the social robot that is always playing power games when he should be relaxing and confidently enjoying his interactions with women. People aren’t always trying to fuck with you.