mystery method player trap
A woman’s indicators of interest, or IOIs, notify when to go from the attract stage to the comfort stage, but you must not do so until she has legitimately earned your IOIs as well! Getting IOIs from a woman is simply not enough reason to begin returning them. If you are too easy, she will mark you as another notch in her belt and move on in search of more challenging conquests.
Some IOI Examples:
• She touches you. When you say, “Hands off the merchandise”, she touches you again.
• When you grab her hands and hold them, she holds back.
• She laughs at all your humorous remarks, and the ones that aren’t funny.
• When you ask her to bite your neck, she does.
• She asks you for your name.
You must first encourage her to demonstrate qualities that can substantiate your attraction. If you don’t, she may suspect that you only played with her emotions, callously attracting her in a game to win another score. She will feel uncomfortable being attracted to you and she will lose this attraction for you quickly. Your attraction stage dialogue will in fact be viewed as conniving and she will perceive you as emotionally manipulative. In this light, a player is simply a seducer with good opening game.