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December 2007
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October 2007
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Mystery Method - Grounding
Grounding (via mysterymethod - Newsvine Column)
Mystery Method - Really - Be Talkative
Really - Be Talkative (via mysterymethod - Newsvine Column)
Mystery method - Bait - Hook - Reel - Release
Bait - Hook - Reel - Release (via mysterymethod - Newsvine Column)
September 2007
13 posts
Mystery Method - "So how do you all know each...
“So how do you all know each other?” (via mysterymethod - Newsvine Column)
Mystery method - The Problem with the 'Who Lies...
The Problem with the ‘Who Lies More’ Opener
by Style (via mysterymethod - Newsvine Column)
Mystery method - The Problem with the 'Who Lies...
The Problem with the ‘Who Lies More’ Opener
by Style (via mysterymethod - Newsvine Column)
Mystery method - Canned Material
Canned Material
The Mystery Method makes use of canned material. If a particular value-demonstrating routine has been internalized, and is ready for use in set, then that routine is said to be in the can. (via mysterymethod - Newsvine Column)
Mystery Method - The "Have you seen Michelle?"...
The “Have you seen Michelle?” method (via mysterymethod - Newsvine Column)
frame control
Frame Control The frame is the underlying meaning. It’s the context, the implication — the unspoken assumption in everything you say. If someone asks you, “Are the fish biting today?” then he is implying that you have been out fishing. He hasn’t said so, but the listener will assume it is true — it’s just part of the frame. The frame supplies meaning to the content....
Mystery Method - Just tell her how you "view" her
Just tell her how you “view” her, and she will become that person for you, but only if she agrees and it is flattering for her. You are building a character for her, and she will play the role because she likes the way that the role makes her feel. (via mysterymethod - Newsvine Column)
Mystery method - Proximity
Proximity (via mysterymethod - Newsvine Column)
make a girl jealous
On the phone say, “Hold on I have another call.” Do this three or four times during the conversation and act annoyed. It’ll make you seem popular. Girls have done this to me and it works. 2. You can also throw in the tact that you have a girlfriend (which you may, or not.) “A girlfriend of mine …” or how about, “I don’t think my girlfriend would like...
mystery mehod tips
By betraying the woman’s importance to him, the man lowers his value in her eyes. She will find him less attractive and will behave accordingly. If he gets a lot of girls, he won’t care it tilings work out with her. But he cares — therefore he must not get many girls. Therefore he must be a low-value guy.
Mystery method - Attractive women are found in...
Attractive women are found in groups (via mysterymethod - Newsvine Column)
Mystery Method - Rating Women
Rating Women (via mysterymethod - Newsvine Column)
gaming a girl
vibe create the touches? It is all part of a snowballing and sell-propelling system that feeds upon itself and sparks like a tire. Then it grows and becomes clear that it is on between them. This energy is what’s important, not the physical touches. The physical touches are not merely yards to be gained on a football field in order to get closer to the goal. Rather, they are one necessary...
when to use negs in your pick up game
The better looking the girl, the more aggressive you must be with using negs. A 10 can get three negs up front, while an 8 gets only one or two over a longer time. You can go overboard if she thinks you are better than her (which happens more often that you’d think.) You can drop the self-esteem right out from under her, just like most 10s do to guys, and this isn’t good. You have to...
August 2007
27 posts
Mystey Method - Some reasons why women might say...
Some reasons why women might say they have a boyfriend: (via mysterymethod - Newsvine Column)
Is your girlfriend cheating on you?
The important information isn’t the existence of a boyfriend. If your game is tight, girls will cheat on their boyfriends at the drop of a hat. Rather, the important information is that she is probably not going to cheat on her boyfriend in front of his sister, who is standing right here. “So how do you all know each other?” might also reveal that the group consists of coworkers,...
mystery method freez out
The Freeze-Out When YOU are in the attract phase, YOU can bust her balls when she busts yours. But once you reach comfort, if she busts on you, you can only freeze-out by withdrawing attention. She will say, what’s wrong?” You say, “Nothing.” (Not sulking! The delivery must be sincere, like it’s really no big deal) Then, after she is punished by your silence for an...
Mystery Method - Boyfriends
Boyfriends (via mysterymethod - Newsvine Column)
master pickup artist
If the moment of your first kiss is weird and awkward, it will probably also be your last kiss. Women are very unforgiving about this sort of thing. They have a fantasy about meeting the right guy, about how perfect it will be and how everything will happen so naturally and so right. And the truth is, with guys who have game (read: practice), that’s exactly how it does happen. master pickup...
the mystery method hoop theory
the mystery method hoop theory.. One frame game that people play is they will offer hoops, to see if they can get YOU to jump into their hoop. For example, a girl might try to get YOU to do something such as hold her purse or buy her a drink. Or… • She gives you a fake IOI to see if you • She gives a fake IOD to see if will start chasing her. you get worried and react. • She makes a comment...
the friendship zone
By not holding her hands, smelling her neck, or kissing her during the comfort stage you trap yourself there, unable to proceed further. A woman may grow so comfortable with your non-sexual nature that she will prefer you stay that way. When you finally attempt to move into the seduction stage with a woman and you hear her say, “Let’s just be friends,” you know you have fallen...
the mystery method ebook
the mystery method ebook The author shows you how to establish connections and understand similarities. “There is more familiarity and more informal warmth during a conversation between men and women.” While you’re having a conversation, it is important to have a sense of humor. The author describes exactly what kind of humor women like. The author also informs the reader...
mystery method player trap
A woman’s indicators of interest, or IOIs, notify when to go from the attract stage to the comfort stage, but you must not do so until she has legitimately earned your IOIs as well! Getting IOIs from a woman is simply not enough reason to begin returning them. If you are too easy, she will mark you as another notch in her belt and move on in search of more challenging conquests. Some IOI...
Mystery Method - Stimulate her emotions
The venusian artist uses emotional stimulation instead of rational discourse. As long as it feels right, your romantic interest will invent her own reasons for what is happening. (via mysterymethod - Newsvine Column)
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When you tell a story, it doesn’t have to be explicitly impressive. In fact, it’s better if it’s not some amazing story; you don’t want the target to think you’re trying to impress her. As long as the story is fun, interesting, and most importantly captures the attention of her group, then it is fine. These sorts of stories are most congruent if they are somewhat true...
Mystery Method - Stimulate her emotions
The venusian artist uses emotional stimulation instead of rational discourse. As long as it feels right, your romantic interest will invent her own reasons for what is happening. (via mysterymethod - Newsvine Column)
Mystery Method - Have a positive, open attitude....
Have a positive, open attitude. Don’t be judgmental or jealous.
• Don’t act as if tilings are a big deal. They aren’t.
• Don’t complain or be emotionally punishing. If you call her on her @!$%# while talking on the phone, she will just avoid talking to you on the phone. (via mysterymethod - Newsvine Column)
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Playful role-plaving builds attraction. Just invent some crazy scenario in your head and describe it to her. Make sure it’s fun and playful, not heavy.
Opinion Openers
The main purpose of the opener is to get her attention and raise her interest in a chat. It is not a time to hit on her. It is not a time to introduce yourself. It is not a time to compliment her or spend money on her. Although there are many different kinds of effective openers, the Mystery Method tends to focus on indirect openers.
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Fun and Stimulation
Just as she tends to avoid discomfort, so she is also attracted to fun and stimulation. (Once her safety has been secured, of course.) Attractive women are often found on boats or dance floors, in parties or nice cars, and around bad boys and rich men. (via mysterymethod - Newsvine Column)
Congruence Tests
A woman’s number one emotional priority is safety and security. Above all, she wants a man who makes her feel safe and protected. vh1 the mystery methods way
mystery method- Non-Standard Touching
When touching a girl’s hand, you’re not trying to set a frame that the two of you are explicitly hand-holding like a couple of teenagers marking their territory. Instead, you might be reading her palm or thumb-wrestling with her, or showing her some jive handshake, or taking her hand and spinning her around. What’s important is that she becomes accustomed to your hands touching —...
How to practice your game
Do the Mystery Method newbie drill for at least a month or two. Open three sets per hour, four hours per night, four nights per week. Follow the 3-Second Rule.
Mystery method - Foreplay
Note how a choice you make at one time will determine the outcome of a situation a day or more later. (via mysterymethod - Newsvine Column)
Mystery Method - Women select for survival and...
So what are some characteristics that convey S and R value? • Looks and height. All other factors being the same, women will generally be more attracted to taller or better-looking men. However, if you are short or ugly, that is absolutely no excuse to feel sorry for yourself. (via mysterymethod - Newsvine Column)
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Anti-Slut Defense (via mysterymethod - Newsvine Column)
Mystery Method - Rejection and Approach Anxiety
Rejection and Approach Anxiety (via mysterymethod - Newsvine Column)
Mystery Method →
Understanding structure is crucial. Many students come to our program with a variety of ideas and possibilities that they’ve used on women in the past with little sense of their proper organization. A particular story or technique may do wonders f… Read and post comments | Send to a friend
The Mystery Method Newbie Drill
• Go out gaming four nights per week for four hours each night.
• Make three approaches per hour. This schedule allows for twenty minutes per approach. (via mysterymethod - Newsvine Column)
HOW TO HIT ON A WOMAN →
You cannot indicate your interest (IOI) to a woman until she has first indicated her interest to you. The ATTRACT STAGE has 3 phases: 1) OPEN - to get you into her group and in front of the girl 2) F2M female to male attract - to get her attracted… Read and post comments | Send to a friend